Success we learn is a process not an event. Its pecurialities are defined and shaped by the environment we grow up in. This particularly the case with women in settings like Botswana trying to lose weight. A lot of literature on the subject is written by western writers in a completely different cultural set up.
Every meal that is cooked in a restaurant, especially high-end business entities, comes at a heavy cost not just to the consumer but chefs who prepare the meal. They sacrifice a lot especially their mental health.